Night Terrors and Confusional Arousal
A confusional arousal can leave you feeling confused and scared for your child.�They will suddenly wake up from sleep and appear agitated and upset.�They may kick, scream, thrash around in�their bed as if�they�are in pain or angry at something. Your initial reaction is to probably wake�them up and comfort�them but this is actually not the right thing to do. Your child is not completely awake, even if�their eyes are open. During a confusional arousal part of the brain is still asleep while another part of the brain wakes up. You can imagine how this can be confusing for a child. The good news, however, is that�they will not have any recollection of the events the next day.
During confusional arousal your child may
- Appear to be awake but will not respond normally to you
- Tantrum in�their bed
- Fight you if you try to cuddle them
- Appear confused and disorientated
Confusional arousals normally occur in children around the age of 18 months to five years of age. They usually occur at the beginning of the night (within the first three hours) and during the deepest sleep. The episode can go on for as long as 45 minutes but generally last between 5 and 15 minutes.
Why is This Happening?
There are a number of different things that can trigger confusional arousal in a child. They can be a normal part of the maturity process and can often be a reaction to the surroundings. You may notice that your child has an episode if�they are�overtired, overstimulated or emotionally stressed. Some medicines can also cause confusional arousal including sedatives and antihistamines. Even minor disturbances in naptime and daily routine can create a higher risk of an episode.
It can be hard as parents to sit back and do nothing when your child is screaming the house down. But this is exactly what you should do. Let your child have�their sleeping tantrum and just be there. Don’t offer comfort or try to wake�them up as this can make things worse. Just make sure�they are�safe and that you are there when they need you.
You can try to prevent these night terrors from happening by sticking to a routine, ensuring�your child is�getting enough sleep and trying to eliminate any stressful or overstimulating activities.� If your child is having these episodes regularly, or if�they are�over the age of 6, then a trip to the doctor may help you get a better grasp on what is causing them and how you can help.

Responses to “Confusional Sleep Arousals In Kids”
Yep, my 3 year old daughter has had about 3-4 of these happen in her lifetime. It was disturbing to us the first time it happened as she didn’t respond at all to our attempts of comforting her. We quickly learnt that just sitting next to her was the only thing we could do whilst it was happening. We would wait with her until it passed (she used to scream at us if we left the room!) and that was only for about 5 minutes or so. It usually happens if shes had a huge day or is just over stimulated for whatever reason. She seemed to have them more in her 2nd year, nice to have a name for them! Thank you!!!!
My daughter has this and it can be very scary. When she first started doing it 2 years Ago i tried to do some research on the net but found very little and limited information except university studies. After a lot of trial and error we worked out being over tired causes hers. She will be 5 this year so hopefully they will go away completely as the have slowed right down.
My daughter had night terrors and they always happen after she had been asleep for an hour, just when deep sleep kicks in. It was a scary time. I read an article on how to prevent night terrors, I had nothing to lose so I tried it. As night terrors usually came at around the same time every night it said to wake the child just before they would start, either by taking them to the toilet or to get a drink or maybe just have a cuddle but keep them awake for a few minutes then put them back to bed. This has to be done every night for a week or two. My daughter never had a night terror after. It’s worth it trust me.
We had exact same thing with our daughter (then 2.5years) did the research and did the same, took her to toilet and gave a sip of water for 2 weeks. They disappeared for months but has started getting them again just not as bad. And the waking after an hour of sleep hasn’t worked this time.
Confusional arrousal and night terrors sound like they are the same, what is the difference?
My daughter has started having them recently. This makes sense and gives me peace of mind. Thank you for the article!