The Ultimate 30-Day Sex Challenge

Sex Challenge Day 5: Sensory Play – ice, feathers, warm, cold, soft, scratchy…all blindfolded

Sensory Play is all about taking the time to tease your partner into a frenzy.

Some suggestion on items you can use to tease your partner include:

Touch Sensory Play:

• Feathers
• Ice Cubes
• Drip candle wax (specifically made for sex – don’t burn them!)
• Spank them gently with a paddle
• A hairbrush can be used lightly for the scratchy sensation
• Use a flogger if you are confident!

Smells:

• Put your partner’s favourite cologne on
• Light some beautiful candles
• Massage Oil

Taste:

• Fresh Strawberries
• Chocolate
• Flavoured Lubricant

Texture:

• Satin Sheets
• Glass Sex Toys

Ears Can Be Sexy Too

• Put headphones on your partner with their favourite sexy songs
• Whisper sweet nothings into your partner’s ears
• Nibble their earlobe

How to Use Sensory Play in the Bedroom:

Think of this as foreplay, because that’s what it really is!  Take your time experimenting running the different types of stimulus over your partner, whipping them up into a frenzy until you can’t control yourselves!

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