The Ultimate 30-Day Sex Challenge

Sex Challenge Day 1: Have Shower Sex Together

Flick the lock on your bedroom door, grab your partner and the soap, and wash each other down, thoroughly…slowly.

Hints for Great Shower Sex:

• Turn the heat up before you both get into the shower.  It sucks being cold, and the steam will ensure both of you are warm until things heat up!
• The shower head can have multiple uses – put it to work!
• Sometimes the shower floor can get slippery – if you have a non-slip bath mat, pop it on the bottom of the shower first to give you both a bit of stability!
• Keep both feet on the ground to avoid slipping!

Great positions for Shower Sex:

• Have oral sex in the shower.  Many people are self-conscious about the way they smell or taste, but all that needless worry goes away in a shower, get on your knees!
• The Shower Floor Cowgirl – One person sits on the floor and the other sits on top of the other facing the same way
• Standing Doggy – One person bends over at the waist and the other is behind.
• Leg Lift – The woman puts her leg up with the man’s help and this helps with access for fun shower sex.

Note: Soap is not lube. Sure, lather each other up, but unless you want your genitals to sting – keep the soap away from intimate areas. If you need some additional lubrication (water can wash away all the natural lubrication that our vaginas produce) – then use a silicone-based lubricant (as water-based will just wash away).

Silicone Lube we recommend include:

• Lovehoney Indulge Silicone Lubricant 100ml
• Pjur Original Silicone-Based Lubricant 250ml
• Swiss Navy Silicone Lubricant 118ml
• System JO Premium Silicone Lubricant 480ml

Homework:

30 day Sex Challenge Day 4 will require some soft rope or handcuffs to tie each other up.  Make sure you have some on hand. You can grab bondage rope from Lovehoney.

Clare Whitfield Chief Editor

Clare Whitfield is the Editor of Stay at Home Mum and a recognised voice in practical home management for Australian families. Based in the northern suburbs of Sydney, she balances editorial leadership with life as a stay at home mum to two school age children. Her background in home economics and more than a decade of experience in recipe development, family budgeting, and household systems inform her work.

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