# 6 Lessons That Children Learn in School and Life

- Link: https://stayathomemum.com.au/family/school/lessons-that-children-learn-in-school-and-life/
- Published: 2016-02-25T12:00:06+11:00
- Author: Clare Whitfield

## _Some of the lessons that children learn in school, even in the early years, are valuable all throughout life.�_

There is so much more to school than learning your ABCs and how to multiply fractions.
�Below are some of the most important lessons your kids will learn that are not 
just�found in books.

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## 1. Responsibility

Your child will have a number of things�they will need to be responsible for. At
the start of�their schooling they will need to be responsible for things like�their
[lunch box](https://stayathomemum.com.au/recipes/healthy-lunch-box-ideas-for-kids/)
and jacket; by the end they will need to be responsible for [homework](https://stayathomemum.com.au/my-kids/schooling/homework-without-the-hard-work/)
assignments, exam dates and university deadlines.

## 2. Organization

Time management is one of the most important skills we need in life. There never
seems to be enough hours in the day and even young children can learn how to remain
organized and how to effectively use their time. Using certain tools, such as a 
pencil case and a folder system, can help them learn how to organize their belongings.
As they grow older they will learn how to use other effective time management tools
such as calendars and to-do-lists.

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## 3. Acceptance

Another lesson that your child will learn when�they start�school is how to accept
those around�them and things that are different than what�they know. It is only 
natural for your child to get used to certain things, certain people, certain food
and a certain way of doing things. Going to school teaches�them that there are several
different ways to do things in life and that the way you do it at home is not the
only way.�They will learn how to accept people for who they are, regardless of how
different they may be from what�they are�used to.

## 4. Tolerance

In addition to accepting others around them, your child will also learn to be more
tolerant and patient. They will be in a classroom with 25 to 30 other children and
won’t be put first anymore. They�will need to learn how to be tolerant of other 
people’s requests, demands and needs.

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## 5. Flexibility

When your five year old first starts school�they will probably be pretty used to
having things�their way all the time. After all, when they are at home with you,
�they will be used to being the boss (or second in command). At school, however,
this�isn’t�the case and your child will need to�learn how to adapt to other people’s
timetables. Your child will not be able to simply go to the toilet without asking
or pull out�their lunch and start eating it at 9 am.�They will learn to follow someone
else’s schedule and routine which will definitely come in handy in the future.

## 6. Communication

There are so many opportunities in school for effective communication, not only 
through their words but also through their gestures and motions. Children will learn
how to socialise with children their own age, children older and younger than them
as well as adults and people in charge. Knowing how to talk to adults, especially
when they are in danger, is an important skill for all children to possess. Furthermore,
being able to express their feelings to other people and to learn how to play well
with children around them are also things that school will teach them. Your child
will also learn how to communicate in other methods, through the computer, through
written communication and through public speaking.

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## _What real-life lessons did your children learn at school?_

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 Clare Whitfield Chief Editor

 Clare Whitfield is the Editor of Stay at Home Mum and a recognised voice in practical
home management for Australian families. Based in the northern suburbs of Sydney,
she balances editorial leadership with life as a stay at home mum to two school 
age children. Her background in home economics and more than a decade of experience
in recipe development, family budgeting, and household systems inform her work.

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