The Ultimate 30-Day Sex Challenge

Sex Challenge Day 8: Masturbate In Front of Each Other

Masturbation is probably one of the most intimate things a person can do with themselves.  So masturbating in front of your partner can be confronting if you haven’t done it before, but also titillating and a fantastic way to learn about what your partner likes.

Setting the Scene

Lights on ladies!  Our partners want to see our bodies!  Get naked and start slowly.  If you like, encourage your partner to touch you during the act – this is a great ice-breaker for beginners.  If you are still blushing profusely – another great tip is to sit in your partners lap (both facing the same way), and start masturbating this way..

 “Good sex is like good bridge. If you don’t have a good partner, you’d better have a good hand.”
“� Mae West

Homework:

Source some fun sex toys that you will both enjoy. Ask some questions about your partners’ wants and turn-ons. If they have had experience with a sex toy before, what was it? What did they like? What do they hate? Make sure to start slowly if you are new to sexual aids and toys. If you have no idea what will excite your partner pick a few different toys to experiment with.

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