The Ultimate 30-Day Sex Challenge

Sex Challenge Day 16: Your Partner’s fantasy

Does your partner have a fantasy? If they do, are you aware of the fantasy? Or Fantasies? Many people have one in particular that they wish to bring to life, and also others that they keep hidden as they might be a bit embarrassed.

Spend time with your lover to discuss and find out if they do indeed have a yearning to act out a fantasy.

“My type of guy is hot and hung, but sweet will do!” Rihanna told Cosmopolitan in 2011.

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Here are some common sexual fantasies:

• Sex in public
• Sex with an ex
• Role-Play –  Pretend to be spies, Get picked up at a bar by your partner but pretend not to know each other, doctors and nurses and much more.
• Swinging – having sex with multiple people
• Romance – having a perfect night, dinner, walk on the beach and romance
• Forbidden Sex or Taboo – Voyeurism or a foot fetish
• Bondage/forced sex – Boss and employee
• Same-sex encounters

Sex Homework:

Pick one fantasy that you can act out with your partner. Get props and all things needed to bring this to life. Enjoy and have fun!

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